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Fundraising for St Catherine’s Hospice (Crawley)

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  • In memory of: Claire Perrin
  • Event: London Marathon 2019, 28 Apr 2019

London Marathon 2019

A group of St Catherine's Hospice runners are taking on London Marathon along the streets of London to help the hospice be there for local people and those close to them when life comes full circle

Charity Registration No. 281362


It was two weeks before Christmas 2014 when my wife Claire was admitted to hospital. She was pregnant with our son Bertie and when he arrived into our lives five weeks early, he was perfect. But as we adjusted to being new parents Claire continued to feel unwell. Just seven days after Bertie was born we found out why.

In a meeting room at East Surrey Hospital a doctor told us Claire had stage four cancer. It had spread from her bowel to her liver and her lung. I couldn’t process the news. We’d just become parents. How could this be happening to us now? As we were told that worse case Claire had three months, and best case she had 18 months, she, strong as ever, turned to me and said, “At least we’ve found out what it is”. Up until then we hadn’t known what was wrong.

Claire fought her cancer. She had 48 chemotherapy sessions (I went to every single one), radiotherapy and three major operations, but eventually Claire became less well. I knew she wanted to stay at home, in the home she loved that we’d renovated together, so I and her family looked after her there. During that time St Catherine’s Hospice nurses visited to offer us expert support. They were amazing. They were just like angels walking into our home.

The hospice nurses cared for Claire with such dignity and controlled her pain. Nurses were always on the end of the phone, day or night, to offer me advice and support too. Their help meant I knew I was doing the best for my Claire.

St Catherine’s offered us a place of safety. They were there for us whenever we needed them. And they were like a cushioning to fall onto. They were the kindest, most caring  people I’ve ever met.

Claire and I were in a situation nobody should ever have to be in. And before she died we had conversations that nobody should ever have to have but I’m glad that I know her wishes for mine and Bertie’s future. Claire was my best mate and my soul mate. We were inseparable. When I lost her, I lost my world, but I’m so grateful I experienced 29 years with such a caring, strong, fun-loving woman.

And now I now feel ready to give something back to St Catherine’s in Claire’s memory. So I’m running the London Marathon. I’m passionate about raising awareness of the hospice’s vital work. And making sure that other people, going through the darkest days they’ll ever face, can have the same amazing care that my wonderful Claire did. I know that’s what she would have wanted.

If Claire knew I was running the marathon she’d have said I was partly mad but I know she’d be so, so proud of me.

St Catherine’s is a charity very close to my and Claire’s family and friends hearts so I hope you’ll get behind me. Please donate whatever you can – every donation makes a difference. And keep an eye on this page for updates on how I’m getting on!

Thank you for your support.