Story
Team Lily has been created by Clair Beswick, to help raise money for Cancer Research in memory of her daughter, Lily Beswick who died from Cancer in November 2012.
On Sunday 6th July, Team Lily will be completing the Race For Life at Leverhulme Park in Bolton. Joining Clair will be Lily's Grandma, Aunties & Cousin and some of the wonderful staff from Super Stars Nursery who looked after Lily when she was well enough to attend.
Also, on Sunday 13th July, Lilys Godmother Libby will be completing the Race for Life at Haydock Park.
Here is her story .......
Lily Emma Beswick was a beautiful princess who was loved very much by her Mummy & Daddy and big brothers Oliver & Rowan. 2 Weeks after her first birthday we found a lump on her
left thigh. It was about the size of a small egg and didn't seem to be
bothering her. It really just appeared overnight. After a trip to the
doctors to get it checked out we were admitted to Royal
Bolton Hospital for a couple of days to treat for an infection. During
her stay the hospital carried out further tests to establish exactly
what the lump was. It was after having an ultra sound scan they decided
it must be a tumour and we were then told to go home and pack for a few
days stay at Royal Manchester Children's Hospital as they were
referring us to the Oncology Department (Cancer Ward).
Terrified, we
turned up at Ward 84 on 26th February 2012 and our journey into an
unknown world began. But no matter how scared we were, we couldn't help
but feel part of an extraordinary, wonderful and positive environment.
All around us were children with bald heads and wheeling their machines
that they were attached to around with them, and the thing that stood
out more than anything was how happy they were and how determined they
were to get on with things.
The other parents were amazing and supportive too. It soon became clear that we were all there for each other.
After further tests and examinations Lily was finally diagnosed on 13th
March with a tumour called Rhabdomyosarcoma, which is a soft tissue
tumour mainly found in boys.
She started a 6 month course of
chemotherapy so had to stay in hospital every 3 weeks for 3 days. She
also had surgery in June to remove the tumour, which by this time had
reduced in size significantly.
During the course of her treatment
she also had to be admitted for infected and open wound after the
biopsy, tonsillitis, a couple of raised temperatures and even chicken
pox.
Lily sailed through her treatment and on 12th September she
completed her last course of chemotherapy. Life was good and we were now
entering into the maintenance stage. Routine scan appointments were
booked and we were waiting for a date for her to have her Hickman line
removed.
Then on 17th October, she had a temperature and had to be
admitted to hospital for a couple of days to be treated for an
infection. Everything went ok and we came home the day before Oliver's
birthday. But a week later Lily's temperature had risen again and we
were back in hospital. This time she also had a bit of a cough. More
tests and xrays were done and on 30th October we were given the
devastating news that Lily had relapsed and they had found 4 more
tumours on her lungs. The cancer was back.
Lily was transferred the
following day back onto Ward 84 to start more chemotherapy, but her
breathing was deteriorating fast and she was put on oxygen. So on
Saturday 3rd November, Lily was transferred to the Paediatric Intensive
Care Unit and was sedated and put onto a life support machine to help
with her breathing.
Lily stayed here for 3 weeks. There were ups
and downs, good days and bad days but eventually we were told that even
if the chemo worked and got rid of the tumours, they had caused so much
damage that they were irreparable and Lily would never recover. Lily
was also starting to deteriorate, and it was with great sadness that we
agreed that her life support should be removed.
On 22nd November Lily died in my arms with her Daddy by her side.
I havae always said that I believe the work that Cancer Research has done, has played a significant part in Lilys journey. I really do believe that if Lily had been diagnosed with Cancer 20 years ago, I dont think that she would have even got past 3 months.
It is thanks to Cancer Research that we were able to have hope and believe that Lily was going to be ok. We spent so much quality time together, which was sometimes quite intense, especially during the hospital stays. Cancer Research gave us 9 extra months with Lily and for that me and my family will be forever grateful, and I will continue to support them as much as I can.
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