Story
Throughout my 36-year career as a Paediatric Macmillan Nurse none of my patients ever died alone. As children they always had a parent or family member by their side. Sadly, I know this isn’t always the case for adults.
As an 18yr old student nurse on my very first adult placement I cared for Doris, a 91yr old lady who was dying from facial cancer. She told me she knew she was dying but that her son wouldn’t make it on time and she was terrified of dying alone. I promised I wouldn’t let that happen so I stayed with her until she died and long after my shift had ended.
A few months later her son tracked me down and wrote to thank me. He told me how much it meant to know that his mum hadn’t been alone, I still have that letter today.
I have never forgotten Doris, her son, or how much that small gesture meant to them. It showed me that even the simplest act of kindness such as holding someone’s hand or simply being there can make such a difference and help turn someone’s final moments into a more peaceful and positive experience.
Now that I’m retired, I wanted to do something meaningful and this September I’m taking on a personal challenge. Every single day throughout the month I will run, walk or cycle, aiming to complete a total of 150 miles to raise money for this incredible charity.
Supporting the Trust means so much to me. Every donation however small helps ensure volunteers are trained and supported to provide comfort and reassurance so that when family or friends can’t be there, someone will be.
No one should have to face the end of life alone.
Thank you so much for your support. ❤️
